Create a positive start point as winter sets in
“What you put out is what you get back”. We’ve heard this before in one context or another but does it have an effect on your online dating life? Dil Milay the online dating app thinks you may be onto something really good and right as you follow that thought. What you project from your personal self, you will very much so attract.
I’s easy to sit in our command chair in the safety of our home and surf profiles, looking. What are we looking for? So now we get to the part of the equation that focuses on you as you search, read and hope to click with someone.
It’s about what you want to attract.
Get clear on what you are looking for, truly? A new friend to do things with in this location you are in now for work or study? An activity partner with special interests?
What do you bring?
Wouldn’t it be nice to find a date, a new friend or to belong to a fresh social circle with people who share your interests, and values?
Sure it would.
Create a positive and supportive environment
In autumn we start moving more indoors and into our cozy indoor cocoons. Weather is colder. Days are shorter. Dil Milay the online dating app has tips to turn all this into personal positive upgrades!
Fall’s golden colours seen in the leaves, highlights of Halloween, found in festivals such as Diwali that bring people together morph into the cool coming of winter. There may yet be a bonfire gathering, but soon you’ll be more on your own to find the warmth in your homebound cocoon.
Your routine will be office or study halls and home. Take time to care for yourself and you’ll project a more positive and warm impression in your online dating efforts:
1. Are you feeling relaxed and warm
It’s not just about the weather conditions. Are you feeling relaxed with yourself? Are you at least feeling like home is warm and welcoming when you get in from work or from study?
Do it for yourself and you’ll be able to make others feel comfortable and relaxed in your company – online or in person.
If your living space offers you comfort and warmth, others will feel it as you communicate with online daters.
2. What is most important to consider
Re-decorating, now could be a great time if you’ve been thinking about it. Add in some warm colours. It could be as simple as hanging up colourful pictures and even adding some extra lighting to brighten things up.
3. How are you feeding your mind and spirit self?
Not everyone has the delicious pleasure of arriving home to that international signal of welcome when you walk in the door – the scent of fresh baking or home cooking to pull you in from the outdoors weather.
But we’re not just talking good foods to fill you up with nutrition and wellness. We’re also talking about your wellness in terms of a diet of too much news, negative thinking or irritating situations. Even people fall into that category. The one that needs some weeding so that you are adding positive energy and experiences to your daily routine.
Add good experiences, good food and spruce up your personal environment. All this will be reflect positively on your outlook when it comes to finding good people online.
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